Mindset: Play to Win

When I was in high school I played soccer for two years.  During practice the coaches would tell us to give a 110% effort, to practice like we would play at the next game.  Going through the motions was not an option.  I took this advice to heart, so when I practiced, I gave it my all.  Then when I faced my opponent, I knew what I was made of.  Injuries, concussions and grass in my teeth were the metric of whether I sufficiently battled the other team for the winning goal.  Fast forward 20 years and I find myself teaching the same concept to new shooters.  Practice like you will play.  Unlike my former soccer schedule, we may never face our gun fighting opponent on the field.

There are so many memes and slogans online to help get us into the mindset of winning the fight. However after much discussion with a good friend of mine, who is a retired Sherriff Deputy, teaching someone resolve can be a difficult task.  Resolve when used as a verb, it is to settle or find a solution to a problem, dispute or contentious matter, to decide firmly on a course of action.  As a noun, resolve is the firm determination to do something.  Synonyms include a decision, resolution or commitment.  Keeping this in mind, you need all of the defined characteristics to win a fight.  One approach is to train for specific scenarios or those situations which would occur most often.  Another approach is to develop the determination to respond to every scenario or situation which could occur.  These two approaches differ in that one conditions your actions and the other conditions your thought process.

Resolve is more than simply knowing what to do when.  Resolve is a state of mental preparedness to take definitive action.  You must be dedicated to learning, training and practicing the skills needed to be flexible within your defensive strategy.  How does a shooter prepare her mind for the fight?  Practice like you play and play to win.

Decision, resolution and commitment are words that describe a steadfast choice. Having the resolve to win is a choice.  A choice that I believe needs to be made early in the game.  At first, this kind of thinking may seem difficult to focus on or seem easy to attain.  All I have to do is decide to act, right. In reality, it is a change to your internal monologue.  Whatever you normally think about during the day, you must make subtle adjustments to your thoughts and view your surroundings with caution.  Simply it can be called situational awareness, but I prefer the description as a change to your overall mindset.  I am aware of what is going on around me.  I am ready and able to handle myself in that situation.  It is difficult to maintain a heightened level of awareness for great length of time, particularly in your own home, which is considered a sanctuary from the outside world.  However you must make a conscious effort to remain alert to your environment, whatever it is.

Keep in mind the five levels of awareness -

Unaware – These are times when you are asleep, watching TV, occupied with a specific task and daydreaming.

Aware – You are conscious of your surroundings, cognizant of those around you, have mentally identified potential threats and where they may emanate from.

Alert – A specific potential threat or threats have been identified; this is a heightened state of awareness.

Alarm – Whatever action was planned in the alert level is now implemented.  Again, taking action does not necessarily mean using force.

How do I develop my resolve?

1.       Decide to prevail.

2.       Maintain an appropriate level of awareness.

3.       Create your self defense plan.

4.       Train for the skills needed in an emergency.

5.       If possible, participate in force on force training.

6.       Practice for your “game day”.

7.       Practice for your “game day”.

Understand that while you may have developed your resolve, both psychological and physical responses can be a battle to overcome in your practice.  Training for stress is crucial to prevail in an encounter.  Your goal is to acclimate yourself to performing well under stress.  This can be done through timing yourself while you shoot, raising your heartrate through exercise prior to shooting or entering a competitive match.

When I played soccer, I was a part of a team.  I was part of a team that had already made the decision before we stepped onto the field that we would win.  We wouldn’t give up, we would keep trying to score goals, and we would do what it took to get those goals.  Preparing for game day meant we already decided we would win.

The Shooting Tradition

Last summer, the oil company my husband works for asked if I would host a shotgun clinic for new shooters at the annual family picnic.  A number of people made the decision to learn how to shoot clays and fired a shotgun for the first time.  I stayed for as long as there was someone who wanted to learn which ended up being hours!  The ages ranged from children that came to learn with their parents to people on the verge of retirement.  There was one young boy that kept getting back in line to shoot over and over.  To my surprise, many of the new shooters were young girls.  What I also didn’t expect was how well the younger kids did and that they were striking the clays on their first shots.  At the end of the clinic everyone was hitting clays.  One of the spectators watching the clinic commented that she didn’t expect the younger girls to be able to hit the clays as shooting isn’t something she’d expect a girl to be able to do.  Her comments made me think about stereotypes of female shooters, but more specifically, younger girls who are learning shoot.

During the mid-19^th century, one female shooter stood above the rest.  Annie Oakley’s shooting skills were often underestimated by her male counterparts.  She is an American icon known for her impressive shooting abilities as a sharpshooter and exhibition shooter.   Fast forward to the 21^st century, Kim Rhode is a triple Olympic Champion and in 2012 she tied the world record for hitting 99 out of 100 clays in the international skeet event at the London Olympics.  She is a daughter, wife, mother and shooter.  Oakley and Rhode both excel at the shooting sports.  These two women are separated by over a hundred years and are connected not solely by their gender, but their accomplishments as shooters.  Annie Oakley was recorded hunting at age 9 and sold her game to local hotels and markets to earn money to support her family. Kim Rhode began competing in skeet at age 10, participated in her first African safari hunt at age 12 and won her first gold medal at age 17. At that time, she became the youngest female gold medalist in Olympic shooting.  As you just read and hopefully realized, both Oakley and Rhode started at a young age.

The next generation of female shooters is interested in a wide range of hobbies, excel at a variety of skills, seek many different educational goals, and come from different political persuasions.  For example, Katelyn Francis is a 16 year old competitive shooter for STI Firearms.  Her mother noted in regards to an award Katelyn received on November 11, 2014, “A lot of people comment on Katie's page about how she should be just a normal teenage girl. Well, she is a normal, polite teenage girl. When her dad started to teach her about guns and shooting, I was not on board but he promised me that shooting and the gun community would teach her responsibility and manners.”

Shyanne Roberts, a 10 year old competitive shooter and second amendment advocate, includes in her interests, aside from shooting, hanging out with friends, music, and soccer.  In early 2014, Shyanne testified at a New Jersey legislative committee regarding gun control.  Only 9 years old at the time, she reminded politicians that the proposed magazine ban would punish her and other athletes instead of the criminals the politicians claimed they were targeting.   

Learning how to shoot teaches you the same life lessons as any sport: you must train and practice to increase your skills.  Shooting sports build character and teach you responsibility, sportsmanship, dedication, and perseverance.  These attributes help young minds develop discipline which in turn prepares them to face the hurdles of life.  Shooting has been passed down from father to daughter, mother to son and many other family combinations when you throw grandparents and uncles in the mix.  It gives children a reason to be outdoors, appreciate nature and develop valuable life skills.  Additionally, learning more about firearms provides the opportunity to discover American history, the Bill of Rights and how firearms have changed the course of human history.

In 2011, Lindsay McCrum released a pictorial attempt to describe the modern female shooter in the book “Chicks with Guns”.  The National Shooting Sports Foundation described it like this, “They reside in all regions of the country, come from all levels of society, and participate seriously in diverse shooting activities. From policewomen to hunters, ranchers to competition shooters, the collection of portraits in ‘Chicks with Guns’ defies stereotypes often associated with aspects of the popular culture of both guns and women.” 

As a shooting instructor, the women I have taught include mothers, nurses, college students, and athletes.  In fact, I am often surprised at the variety of backgrounds that they bring with them.  These women also have one common concern, teaching their children about shooting and firearm safety.  Luckily, there are many programs that teach firearm safety to children as early as eight years old and some, like the NRA’s Eddie Eagle program, teach safety to children as young as four years old. Moms are especially eager to teach their daughters about safety, but there is more to this hobby than simply safety.   What I realized last summer, introducing the next generation of shooters to one of several shooting sports was more than just sharing safety and respect for firearms.  We are sharing our love of an American tradition.

The Shooting